Shortly before 5 o'clock today, I'd suddenly had enough of being made to feel like a victim; so I went up to Jobsworth and told him "Look, I'm not happy, you're not happy, and this is getting to be an unworkable situation. Let's sit down and discuss things rationally first thing tomorrow, and see if we can come to some kind of mutually satisfying solution"...and he said fine. So, first thing tomorrow, we'll have that talk. It's been long overdue. I just hope I can keep it nice and calm and professional-like.