Getting defriended while in the middle of reading a flocked journal post is...weird. At first, I didn't know what was going on, but later on I noticed that that person's name no longer appears on my Mutual Friends list. And so I suppose I've been defriended. Which is no big deal, I knew that person had been thinking of trimming the flist, and I'm fine with it; really, I am.
Now...do I reciprocate? I'm tempted...my flist is too unwieldy as it is...It's not often you can defriend by mutual consent...but I don't know. Maybe I'll leave it for a day or two. She may not have meant it, it's all been a terrible mistake, and she'll realise soon enough...
Oh dear.
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Just so you don't miss it, check my post from this morning;) I think you might appreciate it :D
You mean, the one with the new DM video? Couldn't wait to get home and d\l it! Fantastic -- and as it started to play, I couldn't help but think "Hey! Dave looks a lot like he did in that very first video I ever saw of them, See You" -- it's as if the years of serious addiction have never happened at all!
your flist really is big!
Yeah -- it's sort of mushroomed over the years. But I just can't be doing with filters and the like, it just takes too much effort (and anguish) to create. :(
Hopefully you didn't mind being locked out of the post.
I know I've read posts and then found them locked when I went to comment, but those were of people who I wasn't friends with in the first place...
Not really, although I was just about to comment...
Honestly, it's fine; but as it was somebody who was one of the very first to friend me on LJ, I do feel a little twinge of sadness...Oh well.
Say, did that common rotation cd (Hotel Cafe I) ever arrive? If not, I'm just going to YSI you the contents of it.
Anyway, am currently YSIing. My comp is downloading a file, ripping a CD, and saving a movie file right now so it's pretty slow, but hopefully it won't take too long to finish.
I'd really like to get you the CD somehow. It's so frustrating that I can't seem to get it to you through the mail! But I greatly appreciate the CD you sent me ;^) *snuggles it*
When it comes through, let me know if it looks okay?
Thanks! ;^)
No worry. It's no real trouble ;^)
I can only surmise that customs officials here read that, get curious, open it, play it and then like it so much they steal! it...and who can blame them?
I'm assuming you got the link, but if not here it is. Hope it uploaded/downloads okay! Let me know if there are any problems.
I'll be happy just to get that to you, because you certainly deserve to have it.
It's weird, but you do, don't you? Though yesterday, when that one person defriended me, it felt quite liberating, too...I went and defriended a few journals that hadn't been updated in over a year; then I went and checked who else had defriended me over the last couple of months, and defriended them right back. As of this morning, it means I've got 5 less journals to skim!
I'm still probably going to trim, but I'll give fair warning. Quite frankly, I'm getting annoyed by the people who are obviously reading my journal but who aren't saying anything ever. It's time to get rid of my packrat tendencies. :)
Well, that is just plain rude, isn't it? Although I must admit that there are a few journals on my list that I rarely, if ever, comment on. Usually those of people who have friended me, that I've friended back as a matter of course, and that don't comment in mine...Hmmm. I may just have found another category to defriend...